Once totalplayed >= N, then it becomes a rolling average of the last N games played
((N-1) * oldrating) + currentscore newrating = ---------------------------------------------- N
                  ((N-1) * oldrating) + (oldrating + difference)
    newrating =  ------------------------------------------------
                              N
                   N * oldrating + difference
    newrating =  -----------------------------
                              N
newrating = oldrating + difference/N