Higher functioning herd AND pack animals live their lives in
part through companionship, familiarity, routine, and social order. I
am convinced this goes well beyond the simple confusion of absence especially
when it is a pack of only 2. I am sorry to hear about your Newf. They hold
a soft spot for me. When the decision was made to end Sadie’s suffering
our other non working dog It’s been almost
exactly 2 years, and oddly enough I have no sage words of advice though it seems that
maintaining consistency of at least some of the basic routines and expectations
that included the other members of the pack [you and your husband] would help
keep a foundation of behaviors and attitudes. I’m
not a dog expert or a pyr expert by any stretch, and
do not mean to sound hard-hearted, but would not allow too many rules of
behaviors to change too much. There is comfort to
familiar things and if interactions not previously allowed are now allowed I
could envision longer term problems. By the simplest example, water provided for Duncan, Sadie
and the cats was by dictate communal. After Sadie’s death Watching animals go through a grieving process is heart
wrenching to the extreme with higher functioning animals, they like us do
change, but do eventually get back to a reasonable facsimile of normal sooner or later. With our llamas, the loss of a baby or a herd member can
upset the dam or the entire herd for months, as they attempt to fill in the
void. The same I assume is true of
any pack group. The smaller the pack or herd the more
impactful the loss. Again I am sorry
about your newf. Gary
Kaufman, http://roadsendllamas.blogspot.com/ Putting
Power and Presence in YOUR Pasture
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