Re: [pyrnet] Sponsor

["margaretGreiner" <Shadowman2001@msn.com>]

Hi  Sandy well thanks to Barb putting out a red Flag I sat and talked to the
women and we had a very lengthy chat.More of the truth came out as to what
they wanted in return from my self and Shadow.To sum it all up they(meaning
the owners of the School) wanted the moon sun and stars and the breeding
rights to shadow with the pick of at least the first three litters.I
declined their offer.If and when I ever decide to show my boy I will do so
my self.I couldn't believe the nerve of them wanting breeding rights,That's
like pimping him out it actually turned my stomach.No my family and I have
decided the price was much to high,Shadow will remain with us where he is
Loved.Thanks Sandy and everyone that offered Some very sound advice.I could
have made the biggest mistake of my and shadows life.
Peg,Shadow and Noel
----- Original Message -----
From: "sandy white" <swhite2@houston.rr.com>
To: <pyrnet-l@pyrnet.org>
Sent: Friday, November 10, 2000 7:27 PM
Subject: Re: [pyrnet] Sponsor


> Peggy,
> You are getting a lot of good advice.  But I wanted to chime in here and
> agree with Diana Brown, that you should think carefully about an
association
> with someone using guilt, obligation, ought, and should logic on you. In
my
> experience my relationships with people who attempt to manipulate me using
> these tactics, usually get even worse.
> Another idea.  Many of the experienced people on the list have written
about
> late blooming pyrs in conformation.  It could be in few years, that one of
> your children will want to show Shadow.  Although he is gorgeous now, he
may
> be even better looking then, when the family is interested in it.
> Still it must be flattering for experts to want to be associated with you
> and Shadow.  (I do know his heritage, so it is no wonder that they want to
> invest their time and energy.)  So if you decide to do it, let us know
what
> it is like  and who you meet and stuff.
>
>
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "Diana Brown" <nixie@mad.scientist.com>
> To: <pyrnet-l@pyrnet.org>
> Sent: Friday, November 10, 2000 9:36 AM
> Subject: Re: [pyrnet] Sponsor
>
>
> > Peggy,
> >
> > Issues of showing/sponsoring aside, I have to say I don't think I would
> get involved in *any* partnership with people who made me feel presured
and
> used guilt as a weapon - even before we began!
> >
> > If you want to show your precious baby, you will - and good luck and
more
> power to you - but I would carefully evaluate whether you want these folks
> to be involved - and to be honest with you, if this is your training
center,
> I might question any interaction at all with folks who use those methods.
I
> am sure there is a training center in your town that feels it is there to
> *help* students, not force them down a mandatory path whether it is
> appropriate for them or not...
> >
> > JMO
> >
> > Diana and Calysto (who comes when she's called, does all of her basics
> except 'down' without complaint, doesn't go to shows, and really, really
> likes her Auntie Trish at the Training Center, cause she lets Lysto know
> what she needs to do but doesn't try to guilt her into things she doesn't
> have to do <ps>)
> >
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